Friday and Saturday were hard days for my dad.  It finally hit him that he really was not going to be able to go into the main part of the house, he has a hospital bed at home and he has lost some abilities since I was last here in early March.  He broke down in tears both days.  On Saturday, mom was helping him when he broke down and I saw the first tender moment between in many years.  She was encouraging him and telling him that things would be OK.  She even held his hand.  I have not seen anything like this in almost 20 years.